Thanks for the overwhelming response to my last blog. Its really good to know different views of people.
We talked about love, we talked about relationship, shall we talk about Ideal Match now?
For me Ideal Match is compatible match. The ideal for me may not be ideal for you. Everyone has some expectations for his or her dream partner. I had read somewhere, every human has emotional needs, intellectual needs and sexual needs. When these needs are met by the partner, one enjoys the relation.
I guess apart from this, your values, your beliefs, your lifestyle, your goal of life should match or compliment the other. Its very important to respect one another. One should able to accept the other with all his/her flaws. I guess one should also think about would you like the other person to be mother or father of your kid.
In India marriage is not limited to only two individuals. Marriage is a ceremony of getting two families together. So once two individuals decide to get married its equally important that both families to accept it to have smoother life ahead.
I know nothing is perfect. But we can always try to make it perfect.
Well guys, these are my thoughts about Ideal Match and Marriage. I would love to know yours.
5 comments:
India vs. Pakistan . T20 2007 World Championship Final.....Ideal Match.
Hi Di,
Gosh.. how can u pick that topic and limit yourself to only a few words. I think, my comment can be longer than ur blog..
Anyway..here is a list that is important to me... respect, love, understanding, compatibility, trust, care, flexibility, accepting each other the way they are, similar values, faith..etc. and then permutations and combinations of these qualities....
An ideal match? whats that? As far as I know as a bachelor, an 'ideal match' doesnt exist in reality. Have you heard of a software without bugs?
I m completely agree with your thoughts. That, In India marriage is not limited to only two individuals. Marriage is a ceremony of getting two families together & I would like to add ( Vivah ha ak sanskar sudha aahe, jo tho sampann hotana hoth aasto)....
There is no ideal match, sorry for sounding so pessimistic. But every 2 human beings have differences. The old system of marriege is better. Marriage is more about a system for the society. In today's world and future, we r going to be like the west, a little frustrated as gradually the marriage system and joint family system collapses.
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