Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Life. Show all posts

Sunday, June 07, 2020

And The Show Must Go On


Now its been almost 6 months since the world is fighting against this novel virus, Covid-19. World wide economy is down, deaths in many families, people are jobless, some or the other day you get some or the other sad news form family and friends. It seems the natural calamities are less so China is giving war threats. I saw on post recently on Facebook, its seems now only alien attack is missing. These are the days where you should count yourself fortunate if you are alive, healthy and earning.

Yes, I am the one in this fortunate list having job and earning during this lockdown situation.

The other day I was so depressed, the cyclone was going on, heavy winds were blowing outside, raining heavily, life already at risk due to Covid being home in containment zone and I was engrossed in working on production issue, working day night without thinking of what is going on outside. I felt is that really what I should be doing. Later I consoled myself, what else I can do than doing work to keep things going as much as I can.

Every work, every person doing their best is what matters now. Healthcare people are hero saving other peoples life risking their own. People going out for work in lockdown for essential services are hero because of their services we can sit at home and eat safely. People working from home, your service is also important as because of your work economy is surviving. So guys, keep doing your best for your family and country.
I would also request to privileged people to shop something in this unlock phase so that the local shop keepers, hand loom workers, local producers can have some income. They are waiting for their goods to be consumed.

And yes, do take care of yourselves, take necessary precautions while doing your best for others. Live to your fullest while performing your duties. Lets contribute to make this world more beautiful and happy. 

Sunday, August 12, 2018

Secrete of Our Happy Married Life….

Read an article on marriage and triggered me to write this….

Ours is arranged marriage. In case of arranged marriage as we all are aware we meet multiple prospective grooms or brides, talk to them and obviously judge them if he or she can be your perfect match. To do so you first need to know yourself well and then evaluate whether you can get along with the other person. This is what I think as I don’t believe in love at first sight. I really wonder if there is something called of love. I feel if you can respect other you automatically love that person and that was my criterion of match making. You should have some common things to spend your time together. You should have common values and beliefs.
I was against spending lot of money on ceremony, I had wish to donate that amount to Indian Army But this is my unfulfilled wish. The clothes, jewelry, make up were not the things that mattered to both of us. We were more than happy with whatever we gifted to each other. We were more interested in knowing and understanding each other because that’s what going to help us to last our relationship. We were busy making future plans, finding our new home. Sachin was looking for new home as per my preferences that was making me more comfortable with him. We both don’t believe in cast or religion. We were frank with each other. I was able to express my thoughts with him freely that’s what mattered to me.
Since then till today we never gave more importance on gifts, flowers, etc. We see to it we spend time together in activities that both of us like. He helps me in cooking sometimes, we go for walk together. I have developed of new hobby of trekking and walking on trails with him. I think for married couples its necessary to develop common interest which you both can enjoy. We make efforts to make each other happy. Our marriage has brought best out of us. We plan for future together and have common goals in life. That binds us tight.

I will always pray for we to be same forever.

Saturday, September 16, 2017

Hurricane Irma and Me

Every summer in Florida starts with a prayer that there is no major hurricane. I was happy as August also passed with no storms this year. Just as I was enjoying the Labor Day weekend, we got the news that Hurricane Irma has turned into  a category 5 hurricane and is going to hit Florida in a week. I had absolutely no clue how to deal with this kind of situation. My friends in USA just told me to tune to local news and act as per their advice. This turned out to be the best advice which helped me throughout.

I started preparing for the storm and stocked non-perishable food, water, fruits, torch, etc. To gather these items was not easy as shops were going out of stock. We had to go early morning to shops so that we get essentials such as bread, water, and batteries.

There was lot of uncertainty about the path of Irma: whether it will hit the east coast or west coast of Florida. The state government declared a state of emergency. Mandatory evacuation orders were given for southern Florida as the first landfall was predicted to be there. Tension was building up for me.

Up until Wednesday, we were relaxed as all the models predicated its going to be on the east coast. I was following the local news channel.  People in Tampa also started evacuating. News reporters mentioned on Wednesday evening this is the right time to evacuate if you want to. I was clueless about what to do. We just checked flight tickets but the prices were really high. One of my friends told us about some airlines offering cheap tickets for people trying to evacuate at the last moment, but Sachin was firm not to evacuate, so we remained calm. Thursday morning news update showed that path moved little towards west with lots of uncertainty.  We checked the flight tickets again but by that time all flights were sold out. But we did not panic as the hurricane was predicted to go over land and its severity reduced by the time it hit Tampa.

Friday was the worst day. The morning update showed Irma has gained speed and it has shifted more to the west. Mandatory evacuation orders were given to the coastal area of Hillsborough county. (which is my county). Now the tension started building. Sachin was continuously following news and I was working since I had to complete my deliverables on time. Evening update was scary showing a continuous shift to the west. One model predicated chances of a second landfall in Tampa Bay from the west coast. I was clueless what to be done. I started asking opinions of my friends. They were equally clueless. I called up one of my American client colleague for guidance. She said she will decide to evacuate or not after the 11 pm update. The 11 pm update was more scary. I told Sachin we will evacuate next morning and go to a hurricane shelter. Hurricane shelters were going to open 8 am on the next morning. After making our bag ready for evacuation with all important visa documents, some clothes, and food items, we went to bed. After a few minutes, my friends called up and said they are evacuating to Atlanta (North of Tampa in the state of Georgia) and asked whether we want to join them. And we happily joined them. We got just one suitcase and our laptops and started our journey. To decide at this time to evacuate was also risky as there was lots of traffic jam, gas stations were out of fuel, and there was a high chance that we get stuck on road when the storm hits us.

Bhagwan ka nam leke sab nikal pade. It took us 12 hours to reach destination which normally takes 7-8 hours. We did not have a place to stay in Atlanta when we left. We had one number of Art of Living volunteers somebody had shared on Facebook. They were volunteering to provide accommodation for hurricane stranded people. We contacted them, and in few minutes they replied with an address for us to go to. Saturday morning 6 am we reached Georgia. We started to look for hotel accommodation near the city. Most of the hotels were booked, and the available placed were getting filled before we could book them. Luckily we got one room in a shared house on Airbnb. The owner was offering it for free of cost to hurricane affected people.

We reached at Atlanta on Saturday Afternoon. The room was good, and the owner, Wenwen, was very helpful. She had two dogs. The dogs were extremely friendly. The restaurants and grocery shops were nearby the house so we could manage our stay at ease.

Sunday night the hurricane was going to hit Tampa Bay with a wind speed of 110 mph. We were following live updates on our news channel online and praying for our homes to be safe. We woke up Sunday morning to know that all is well in our community. So were happy about it. Now we had to plan our way back to home. Hurricane Irma had turned to tropical storm and it was heading towards Atlanta. So we decided to start our journey back to home on Tuesday.

On Tuesday morning, we checked flight tickets, but Tampa airport was not operational. We were lucky to get bus tickets to Tampa on the same day. Very soon even bus tickets were sold out.  The bus was scheduled to leave at 8:30 pm. We planned our day accordingly. Just before leaving for the bus, we called the bus station to check if the bus is on time and they informed us that the bus service is suspended for Florida and won't be operational until weekend. We cancelled our tickets and again started for looking out for other options. Just then Tampa airport became operational and we could book flight tickets for the same night. Though we got tickets, we were not sure we will fly back until we get the boarding tickets. At 11 pm, we landed in Tampa and reached home half an hour later. We were happy to see our home in the same state as we left.

Although the entire week the life was tough but it did not feel that bad as there were many helping hands. The help and understanding offered by everyone was very overwhelming. I am falling short of words to express it. And I am highly impressed by the disaster management in USA.

Wednesday, November 26, 2014

What’s Life All About?

Life is full of uncertainties. Life is based on our beliefs.


As a kids we are taught certain values and beliefs. We start living our life based on those beliefs. Our experiences lead us to question our beliefs, and then we start thinking about What's life all about? What's the purpose of life? Since ancient time, humans have gone through this exercise and have come up with various theories and concepts about how to live life: we call them religions. some follow their religion without questioning, some reluctantly, and some don’t at all. Some try to explore another galaxies to save human species, some find the life so meaningless that they end themselves, and some blessed people just live the life the way it comes without thinking at all.

We don't get life by our wish nor do we leave this world by our wish. Do we live our life as per our wish?

Monday, February 10, 2014

What Is More Beautiful?


The debate started what is more beautiful, Sunrise or Sunset?
Sunrise brings hope and energy whereas Sunset brings gloominess and an end.
But both makes sky colorful. Sun rises because Sun sets. Ones existence depends on other. We enjoy morning because there exists night, otherwise life is monotonous.
Death is equally beautiful that of birth as it ends the pain in life. We enjoy happiness because we know pain in sorrows.

Friday, January 15, 2010

Do you have answers for these?


The last thing you would like to do in your life is.............
--- to compromise on my dreams and values.

5 things you can not live without....
--- my dreams, my family the backbone of my life, India, my friends, my work

You get restless when....
--- When I think I am failing to fulfill my dreams

Friday, January 01, 2010

Ideal Match

Thanks for the overwhelming response to my last blog. Its really good to know different views of people.
We talked about love, we talked about relationship, shall we talk about Ideal Match now?

For me Ideal Match is compatible match. The ideal for me may not be ideal for you. Everyone has some expectations for his or her dream partner. I had read somewhere, every human has emotional needs, intellectual needs and sexual needs. When these needs are met by the partner, one enjoys the relation.
I guess apart from this, your values, your beliefs, your lifestyle, your goal of life should match or compliment the other. Its very important to respect one another. One should able to accept the other with all his/her flaws. I guess one should also think about would you like the other person to be mother or father of your kid.
In India marriage is not limited to only two individuals. Marriage is a ceremony of getting two families together. So once two individuals decide to get married its equally important that both families to accept it to have smoother life ahead.
I know nothing is perfect. But we can always try to make it perfect.

Well guys, these are my thoughts about Ideal Match and Marriage. I would love to know yours.

Sunday, December 20, 2009

The Changing Trend

Sometimes I wonder whether Bollywood influences the thinking of public or public behavor influences Bollywood.

Earlier movies used to show love between rich and poor. For the two lovers achieving their love used to be ultimate goal of the life. The commitment used to be default part of the love. Physical relation before marriage used to be taken as mistake of the life.

Now the trend is changing, people love each other but they are not ready for commitment, especially according to Bollywood movies males hesitate to give commitment. They don’t understand that they are in love. Physical relation before marriage is very common thing. I guess India is still not ready to accept girl getting into relation without commitment from her side. As of now in all movies like ‘Hum Tum’, ‘Love Aaj Kal’, ‘Paa’, ‘Salam Namaste’ females are portrayed to be committed.

Females are becoming independent economically and emotionally that could be the reason of this change. But I don’t understand changed behavior of guys of hesitating for commitment or they not realizing they loving someone. Why don’t they get ready to take responsibility? Somebody please help me out here to understand.

I won’t wonder if I get to see single females, single mothers living proud life. I wont wonder to see many divorcees. I wont wonder to see single fathers. I won’t wonder if concepts like ‘single woman man’ or ‘single man woman’ no longer exist in reality.

Don’t know the change is good or bad. But change is inevitable.

Saturday, August 15, 2009

Lets talk about Love

There are three concepts I am curious about in my life.

First what is God, Second what is Love and third is there Ghost/Evil/Spirit in this world.

The first I have already wrote, today its time to write about second. And friends I expect lot of comments on this blog as I feel this topic is close to everyone’s heart.

Well let me start, I remember Deepika (my friend) had asked me once, “varada what is love?” and I had replied there is nothing called love. People are so practical in today’s world that I doubt people who claim theirs is love marriage, I don’t have idea about yesteryears.

I would define love = friendship + physical attraction + commitment (third might be contradictory)

When you truly love someone you feel good, you care for that person and you do the things more for other person than for self. You sacrifice for the other person and still you are happy. You just want the other person to be happy and that becomes the ultimate goal of your life. It gives different meaning to your life.

And people who get opportunity to spend entire life with their love are the people blessed by God.

Friends, now its your turn to add to this.

Saturday, February 14, 2009

What is GOD.......

I always wonder ‘What is GOD’, Sometimes I doubt existence of GOD?

Whenever I find short and sweet definition of GOD, I am going to add it in this blog and I also would like you to add to it.

GOD stands for Generator, Operator and Destroyer. The present moment has generated, the present moment is operating and the present moment destroyed the past. So, you are in GOD…. And GOD is in you.

Sunday, June 22, 2008

Beauty : Boon or Curse

This is one real story I heard it from one of my friends. The story is from Orisa. The story is of a beautiful girl from his collage. Lets name the girl Neelam.
Neelam was extraordinarily beautiful girl from middle class family studying MCA course. She was as good at her heart as she was by her looks. When she was in her final year she announced in her class that she got engaged. The proposal was from very rich well known family in the town, the family was also having some political background. Obviously everyone was very happy to know this news. From very next day Neelam started coming in a car. The driver used to wait for her till her class gets over.
And finally the D date arrived. Everyone in the class was invited for the marriage. This was the first marriage of their classmates. They reached at the wedding place with lots of enthusiasm. Their eyes were searching for the lucky chap, Mr Groom. And everyone got shock to see the groom. Few of the girls (closed friends of Neelam) started crying. Boys were confused and didn’t know how to handle their crying girl friends in wedding.
The groom was very old to the bride. Everyone was in dilemma as they should be happy for the bride as she is going to be part of the very rich and well known family or they should be sad for she is getting married to not at all good looking, older guy. The girls started crying thinking the pressure the girl and her family might have felt to say yes for this proposal as the family has political background. If they had said No to them the girl would have been in the worse situation. In short, wo log use utha le jaate.
Now friends tell me, is Beauty boon or curse?