Personality – Nourishing vs Toxic

A toxic personality has a negative mindset. A Perfectionist generally has a toxic personality. You won't find anything wrong in this person but being perfect, this concept itself, is a behavior of finding or looking for faults or incompleteness. Such people set high standards, compare things with ideal things, perfection is their goal. Which leads to unhappy life. These people are intellectual. It is difficult to win argument with such people. But they may not be wise. These intellectual people try to impose logic on life. Logic by means is perfect but life can’t be perfect. Perfectionists try to look for ideal things, try to impose them on their life and ignore reality. 

People with nourishing personalities do not look for ideality; they look into the reality of life. These people look into the positive aspects of life. They are happy and satisfied. They know themselves, their strengths and limits. They don’t go against their nature.

Try to be real to yourself. Know what is good for you. If you are idle, that’s your nature. If  you try to go against it you won’t be happy. Don’t set ideal goals. They create abnormality in personality as you get occupied with one thought to achieve something and you tend to be unhappy. Your goal should be to enjoy what you do. Do what you are capable of, accept your limitations. Gradually you will turn to a nourishing personality, and you will enjoy more and you will be more introspective.

Be free, accept and enjoy. All your worries will disappear.