The Changing Trend

Sometimes I wonder whether Bollywood influences the thinking of public or public behavor influences Bollywood.

Earlier movies used to show love between rich and poor. For the two lovers achieving their love used to be ultimate goal of the life. The commitment used to be default part of the love. Physical relation before marriage used to be taken as mistake of the life.

Now the trend is changing, people love each other but they are not ready for commitment, especially according to Bollywood movies males hesitate to give commitment. They don’t understand that they are in love. Physical relation before marriage is very common thing. I guess India is still not ready to accept girl getting into relation without commitment from her side. As of now in all movies like ‘Hum Tum’, ‘Love Aaj Kal’, ‘Paa’, ‘Salam Namaste’ females are portrayed to be committed.

Females are becoming independent economically and emotionally that could be the reason of this change. But I don’t understand changed behavior of guys of hesitating for commitment or they not realizing they loving someone. Why don’t they get ready to take responsibility? Somebody please help me out here to understand.

I won’t wonder if I get to see single females, single mothers living proud life. I wont wonder to see many divorcees. I wont wonder to see single fathers. I won’t wonder if concepts like ‘single woman man’ or ‘single man woman’ no longer exist in reality.

Don’t know the change is good or bad. But change is inevitable.

Paa – What does it want to convey? Vision India 2020?

The movie is not about the difficulties that a progeria patient has to face. It just tells you what the disease progeria is.
And I felt its about vision India 2020 :-)
The movie tells us how the politicians should be.
The movie talks about how media is, how media should not misuse its power.
The movie talks about new India where female can be a proud single mother. I guess that’s revolutionary thought.

I would love to spread this across

http://www.chetanbhagat.com/speeches/speech_1.php

Something which keeps me ticking

http://www.chetanbhagat.com/speeches/speech_2.php

2 States – CB did not click this time

Well, I got disappointed with the topic CB chose, one more love story in market. For the people who like love stories might have different opinion and would love to know their views on the book. Its just CB’s writing style compelled me complete the book otherwise it’s pathetic, unrealistic. Its high time CB should write realistic stories.
The only good thing about the book is writing style which has already clicked and only one thought in book, the present generation of India should go for inter cast, interstate, inter religion marriage so that next generation of India will be only Indian.

Ladies Day Out

Last evening I spent time with my colleagues, we were roaming from 7:30 pm till 11:00 pm on Mumbai streets. Well the scene is very common here in Mumbai. Then you must be wondering what’s there to blog about it.

Yes, very true. I did not do anything which I did not do earlier. But certainly I did it after along time. After a long time I got girls company to freak out without caring a damn about the world who can enjoy late at night without boys around them. After a long time I did typical girls talk, we giggled, we shared few secrets, we shared our thoughts about life, we spoke about Mr Virappna & Mr. Osama (don’t ask what did we talk about them,that’s top secret, in next outing we will surely talk about Mr. Obama). Gals, I hope this is just a beginning.

You must be still wondering what’s so great about it. The great thing is here I get impressed with gals who can live their life independently, who can enjoy there life without males around them. I just hate girls who feel insecure when guys are not around them especially late in the evening or while traveling outside city. I can proudly say I have traveled in bus from one city to other overnight not because I had no other option. I did it because I wanted to explore life. The girl should have just little common sense what to wear, where to go, whom to talk, how to talk and how to behave nothing goes wrong (obviously there are exceptional cases but then I would say if it is destined to happen it will happen at most secured and safe place as well). Most of the girls in India have mindset of being dependant on guys whatever form as friend, as boyfriend, as husband. Once girl gets married her world is around the guy. Guys continue to enjoy their personal life but girl by her own choice is left with no personal life. But good to see that things are little changing now.

The moral I just love girls enjoying life independently. Thanks for God to give me such a amazing parents who never treated me differently because I am a girl or who never restricted me to do anything because I am girl rather they taught me right from my childhood to deal with this world. I also should thank God to give me birth in this city which treats girls with respect and equality. (Now its difficult for me to live in a place which is not safe for female)

So to conclude, Thanks Shreya and Sanchiti for last evening. Hope we will have many more like this and we will go out as well.

Can somebody tell me the reason of why am I here?

Do you ever get these kind of thoughts? Or I am the only stupid to think like this?

I have read, God has purpose for every life. Then why doesn’t he disclose to every individual. If one gets to know why is he or she on this planet he will be focused and work towards it.
I believe in theory of Karma so keep doing good things is the only thing I should do I guess. How will I survive in this world then God knows.
If God has given me birth its his duty to get good things done from me. I guess I should not bother about it. What say??

You guys must be thinking how stupid I am to write this one!

Wake Up Sid

Hey guys it’s a very good movie. Do watch it.
You must be thinking whats so great about the movie to write a blog.. well… its just I liked it…too many thoughts occupied my mind… I thought I should blog it and then I decided to watch it again :)

The first thought while watching the movie, I could relate myself with Ayesha. The girl wants to be independent in life so comes to mumbai leaving her own Kolkata, she has some dreams, goal for life and she working towards it. She achieves what she wants to be and in her journey she meets a friend to share her joy, her achievements, her struggle.
And this reminded my life at Blore. Isn’t it similar? I met so many people at blore and now they are my forever friends. Doston tumhi ne to meri Blore life itni special banai.
Ayesha wants to be writer and her first article in ‘New Girl in City’ which is very much similar to my second blog (This would have been my first blog if mumbai was not gone under water) http://dilserey.blogspot.com/2005/08/my-bangalore-stay.html The only difference she makes the boy lifepartner and I had too many friends including boys and girls to be in love with :) But I miss you a lot.

Second thought, doston please watch this movie and tell me can a boy be so cute and innocent. I am yet to meet such a guy :) (I am expecting comment on this, guys n gals bas toot pado)

After that they are many good things to write about the movie… the story about Sid. Guys, I am not going to write about this as you can read reviews of this movie.

Fourth thought, earlier was my third one :)
Ranbhir Kapoor.... Rishi Kapoor and Nitu Singh must be feeling very proud to see their son acting so well. Konkana was the reason for me going for this reason but Ranbhir too has acted well. Being a kid of successful parents is difficult thing. Kids get all the luxury in their early age and they have to handle the pressure of living to people’s expectations.

Fifth thought, if my mamu was there, who was writer, director, producer of few serials, I would have helped him in his work. I miss you mamu, I miss your discussions. When you were there I was too immature to help you.

I Think This Is My Most Fav Song

Ha, ha ha ha ha ha, ha ha
Yeh raat yeh chaandni phir kahaan, sun jaa dil ki daastaan -2

Hm hm hm, hm hm hm

Hey pedo ki shaakhon pe
Pedo ki shaakhon pe soyi soyi chaandni, pedo ki shaakhon pe
Tere khayaalon mein khoyi khoyi chaandni
Aur thodi der mein thak ke laut jaayegi
Raat yeh bahar ki phir kabhi na aayegi
Do ek pal aur hai yeh samaa, sun ja dil ki daastaan

Hm hm hm, hm hm hm

Hey lehron ke hontho pe
Lehron ke hontho pe dheema dheema raag hai, lehron ke hontho pe
Bheegi hawaaon mein thandi thandhi aag hai
Is haseen aag mein tu bhi jalke dekhle
Zindagi ke geet ki dhun badal ke dekhle
Khulne de ab dhadkano ki zubaan, sun ja dil ki daastaan

Hey jaati bahaare hain
Jaati bahaare hain uthti jawaaniyan, jaati bahaare hain
Taaron ke chaaon mein pehle kahaaniyaan
(Ek baar chal diye gar tujhe pukaarke
Lautkar na aayenge qaafilen bahaar ke) -2
Aaja abhi zindagi hai jawaan, sun ja dil ki daastaan

Yeh raat yeh chaandni phir kahaan, sun jaa dil ki daastaan
Daastaan, daastaan

Film : Jaal
Year : 1967
Music Director : S D Burman
Lyricist : Shailendra
Snger : Hemant Kumar

Wanna have a look

Lets talk about Love

There are three concepts I am curious about in my life.

First what is God, Second what is Love and third is there Ghost/Evil/Spirit in this world.

The first I have already wrote, today its time to write about second. And friends I expect lot of comments on this blog as I feel this topic is close to everyone’s heart.

Well let me start, I remember Deepika (my friend) had asked me once, “varada what is love?” and I had replied there is nothing called love. People are so practical in today’s world that I doubt people who claim theirs is love marriage, I don’t have idea about yesteryears.

I would define love = friendship + physical attraction + commitment (third might be contradictory)

When you truly love someone you feel good, you care for that person and you do the things more for other person than for self. You sacrifice for the other person and still you are happy. You just want the other person to be happy and that becomes the ultimate goal of your life. It gives different meaning to your life.

And people who get opportunity to spend entire life with their love are the people blessed by God.

Friends, now its your turn to add to this.

What is GOD.......

I always wonder ‘What is GOD’, Sometimes I doubt existence of GOD?

Whenever I find short and sweet definition of GOD, I am going to add it in this blog and I also would like you to add to it.

GOD stands for Generator, Operator and Destroyer. The present moment has generated, the present moment is operating and the present moment destroyed the past. So, you are in GOD…. And GOD is in you.